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9 Homeschooling Tips Every New Homeschooler Needs to Know

With the current pandemic still keeping millions of kids home from school, I’ve been reflecting on the best homeschooling tips I’ve learned over the years.

Whether your school district will be providing online curriculum or not, creating a homeschool system that works for your family definitely can be daunting. So read on for the best homeschooling tips I’d like to offer any mom who is new to homeschooling! 

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While I’m less than perfect at homeschooling, I have learned some big lessons along the way. I’ll be straight up and tell you that there are some days I want to quit.

But, mama, you and I CAN DO HARD THINGS.

So, from my heart to the hearts of all those new homeschooling moms, here are my very best homeschooling tips – the things I wish I’d known before I started homeschooling 8 years ago.

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9 homeschooling tips every new homeschooler needs to know

 

Tip #1: Homeschool learning is different from classroom learning

Hear me now: Your homeschool will not look like or feel like a classroom.

And that’s perfectly okay.

In the beginning of our homeschool journey, I spent countless hours trying to recreate a public school environment.

I purchased the big blue pocket chart calendar, a giant weather board, and encouraging super hero posters describing the 8 parts of speech.

Recreating school learning systems and schedules became my goal. I stressed over weekly spelling tests, and followed the daily 2nd grade schedule to a T, with 28 minutes for lunch and a 22 minute recess.  

After a few weeks, I realized that my boys were happiest curling up beside me on the couch reading an abridged version of The Odyssey or going on a walk through the neighborhood to find insects.

one homeschool tip is to not stick too closely to the curriculumInstead of viewing my home in light of what it lacked from an educational standpoint, I started to search for educational tools and opportunities already present in my home.

Your kids could learn fractions with measuring cups while baking cookies. They can learn to write by sending thank you notes. You could teach them medieval history while playing chess. When you take a minute to look around your home, you can find many great ways to educate your kids.

 

Homeschooling Tip #2: Don’t be a slave to the curriculum

Before I started homeschooling, I spent hours upon hours searching for the right curriculum for my kids.

(But before you even THINK about curriculum, read my post about How to Start Homeschooling! There are several things you need to know before you shop for curriculum!!)

Once I finally made a decision about which curriculum to use, I stuck to it like gum on the bottom of my 6-year-old’s tennis shoe.

I was bound and determined to finish every single lesson in each book according to the prescribed schedule. 

Would you like to know what happened?

School got B O R I N G. I was bored, the kids were bored, even the dog was bored. 

Finally I realized that it was healthy for all of us to take a break from time to time.

Find ways to keep learning and mix things up

The first warm day of spring was a perfect time to put our books down and go outside. We weeded the garden, had a picnic, and watched the clouds.

9 essential homeschooling tipsMy kids loved it when we diverged from our Ancient History curriculum to learn about the presidential election.

When my son developed a deep desire to write his own chapter book in the middle of his Institute for Excellence in Writing curriculum, that was great with me! 

Letting go of my kung fu grip on our adherence to curriculum has brought some of our best learning and bonding moments. 

So, do choose the best curriculum for the learning styles of your kids … BUT, don’t be afraid to take a detour here and there! 

Tip 3: Start with the same routine everyday

While it is important to have some variation to your homeschool day, I do feel it is necessary to start every day with a short, simple routine that does not change.

The key is to keep it SHORT! 

At our house, we always start our school day by standing and saying the Pledge of Allegiance. We discuss the calendar briefly, and have a devotional from our home study gospel curriculum, Come Follow Me.  

After our devotional, I read aloud for about 15-20 minutes. Often our read aloud books are connected to our history curriculum, Story of the World (which we LOVE and highly recommend, by the way!).

My kids have gained a lot from the Classic Starts series that abridges great works of literature for young readers and listeners.

Sometimes we read contemporary books, such as The One and Only Ivan, the Percy Jackson series, or Tales of a Fourth-Grade Nothing.

As I read, sometimes my kids sit still and listen, and other days they prefer to color or draw. As long as they are listening, I am cool with whatever! 

Routines get kids ready to learn

This beginning of the day routine is something that has not changed for us throughout our homeschool years. Sticking to this routine primes my kids for learning in several ways.

First, it is a signal to them that playtime is over and school is beginning. Having a short devotional and prayer helps increase love and unity. Finally, our read aloud time gets their minds engaged and ready to start receiving information. 

Homeschooling Tip #4: Create a Routine that Works for You

Along the same lines for starting everyday the same, I highly recommend finding a routine that works for you and sticking with it. 

Now, please note that I’m not advocating for a strict schedule! You don’t need to stress about starting homeschool at 8:35a on the dot every day.

Some days you may not be able to start until much later because someone accidentally breaks a juice glass or can’t find their favorite pants (yes, this is my life!). Do not let yourself stress in these situations.

an important homeschooling tip is to keep a routine everydayRemember: you are leading a homeschool, not a meeting of Fortune 500 CEOs!  

But once you do start the school day, sticking to a learning routine helps kids feel comfortable.

In addition, having a routine facilitates greater learning because kids are able to focus on what they are learning instead of constantly wondering what may be happening next. 

Free printable homeschool schedule

I’ve created a simple daily homeschool schedule for you right here!

One version has the approximate times I try to stick to and another has empty space for you to customize to your liking. 

(And because I love ya, there’s a simple printable with my mom morning routine as well.)

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Tip 5: You can combine some subjects across grade levels

You may have kids of varying ages and grades.

That’s okay! You can make it work, mama.

I am often asked how I teach 5 kids of varying ages at the same time. And here’s the straight up answer: I do and I don’t.

I’ve learned that there are some subjects that I can teach to any age level at the same time.

Subjects that combine well

These are generally literature, history or social studies, and science.

I use the same core text and read aloud to all of my kids at once. We often have a group discussion and review after the reading, followed by assignments that are age and grade-level appropriate.

For example, my oldest may have additional reading from an advanced encyclopedia with several pages to outline, while my second son will have a short article to read and a 5-sentence paragraph to write. My daughter may have map work, a drawing and 3 complete sentences to rephrase about what we read, while my 1st grader will have 2 sentences to copy and an illustration to color.

Subjects to study individually

these 9 homeschooling tips will help you get your homeschool started smoothlyOn the flip side, there are some subjects that cannot be combined.

These are math and most language arts, such as reading, writing, grammar, and spelling.

Something to remember is that as kids get older, they become more capable of individual learning.

For example, while I spend a lot of hands on time teaching my 1st grader about subtraction, I spend much less time teaching my 6th grader about decimals because he can read and interpret information from his textbook and teaching video.

Of course, I am available to help if needed. But more often than not, I find myself becoming a learning facilitator rather than a teacher for my older children.

Homeschooling Tip #6: Do the most focused work first

You’ll see in my daily school routine that I prioritize this individual learning of math and language arts over our group learning subjects of science and history.

I do this for several reasons.

First, because my kids enjoy science and history the most, they are motivated to complete their other work first so they can get to the “fun stuff.”

Second, I feel that the process learning in math and language arts are essential in my children’s long term growth, intellect and eventual earning capability.

Most of the information we cover in science and social studies can be found with a quick internet search (ie: when did the Mongols rule China?), whereas the processes for math and language arts are just that – processes that need to be learned over time.

 

Tip #7: Decrease the length of your school day

Yay! This is the best of the homeschooling tips, right?! You don’t have have to spend 7 hours a day doing homeschool!!!

This has been a lesson I’ve learned in the past two years. In our home, we aim to be finished with the formal part of our school day by lunchtime. Yep. Let me explain.

We aim to start our school day around 9:30-10a. (By this time my kids have already showered, dressed, had breakfast, practiced piano, finished morning chores (making their bed, unloading or loading the dishwasher, helping with laundry, etc), and done their individual scripture study.)

We work until about 12:30-1p when we stop for lunch. This equates to only a 3-hour school day.

After lunch we always have 30-45 minutes of silent reading. After that, my older kids finish any individual assignments that they still need to complete.

Those of you just starting out on your homeschool journey may be wondering how on earth homeschooled kids are keeping up with all the things they need to learn. And rightly so, because kids who go to public school are there on average for 6-7 hours everyday.

The truth about instructional time in public school

kids spend far less instructional time in public school than most people thinkStudies by the U.S. Department of Education have shown that students in public school, receive only 4 hours of instructional time per day, just over 20 hours a week. Private schools spend even less instructional time, clocking in only 3.7 hours of instructional time daily.

The rest of the time is spent in various activities, such as art, music, P.E. or library, and lunch and recess.

A significant amount of time is also spent in various maintenance activities every day, such as lining up, preparing backpacks and folders, walking to and from specials, lunch, recess, assemblies, etc. 

I’ve been interested to learn that schools in Florida, Alabama, and Texas are recommending that students spend 2-3 hours learning at home via their new online teaching formats. 

Make it your goal to only homeschool in the morning, and you’ll be light years ahead of where I started! 

Homeschooling Tip #8: Remember to cut yourself (and your kids!) some slack

Oh, I wish I could go back and just hug myself before I started homeschooling.

I’d tell that girl that some days would be so. stinking. hard.

I’d let her know that the day I’d lose it with my 4 year old for not remembering how to count to 10 would be just a small moment. That with perseverance and persistence, my youngest boy actually will learn to read.

I would tell myself that there would be countless beautiful moments when we’d cry and laugh over books together, that most science experiments do work out, that I’d be so proud to see my daughter’s pride when she conquered her multiplication facts.

Joy in homeschooling comes in moments – just like motherhood. 

if you start a homeschooling curriculum that doesn't end up working out, that's okayOn another note, if you start on a curriculum that just isn’t working for you, don’t worry about it.

Give it an honest try for a month to six weeks, and if it’s not your jam, sell it online and try something else! No harm done. Trying again is not failure.

Finally, give your kids some grace too. Remember that they may be missing their public school teacher, their school friends, or the routine of public school. Be aware of their emotions and be willing to offer them some comfort during this challenging time.

Tip #9: Make time for yourself

Girl, this homeschooling tip is an absolute must.

I know because I didn’t do it before I started homeschooling, much less when we did start.

After four years, I was completely burned out.

waking up early is the #1 way to be more productiveBut making time for myself has been a primary focus of mine for the past three years, and it has had an amazing impact on our family life.

I find time for myself almost exclusively in the early morning hours before my kids are awake.

In this post here I share all of tips and secrets to how and why I wake up before my kids.

If you are feeling depleted mentally, physically or spiritually, you will struggle to homeschool your kids. I can’t emphasize it enough: YOU. NEED. TIME. FOR. YOURSELF. 

And here’s the kicker: you will need to create that time. It won’t just show up in your day. I’m telling you this because I care about you and your mental and spiritual heath. Get up early, friend. It is worth it. You are worth it.

Let me just remind you that we cannot give what we do not have. Okay, off my soapbox – just read the post about how to wake up before your kids, okay!?!

Bonus homeschooling tip #10: Don’t compare yourself to other homeschoolers

Friend, if there’s one BONUS homeschooling tip I could give to any new homeschooler, this would be it.

Sure, as you’re just starting out, there will be lots of great resources to look to for guidance. I encourage you to find a homeschool mama or two to follow closely at first and ask your questions.

one bonus homeschooling tip is to not compare your homeschool to any otherBut as time goes on, look more and more inside your own home and at your own kids to decide how to make homeschool as success.

(There was a time I had to do kindergarten night school because my youngest boy just struggled to concentrate while his siblings were around!)

Eleanor Roosevelt said that comparison is the thief of joy, and I cannot agree more.

You are not homeschooling to compete with anyone else.

There’s no award for the best homeschool mom in town – (and if there is, I sure don’t know about it because I’ve never won it! ha!).

If you are constantly competing in your mind with other homeschoolers, you are missing the very best parts of homeschool – and that is the chance to focus on your kids and their learning and development.

Final thoughts about the best homeschooling tips for the new homeschool mom:

You CAN do this! I’m a true believer that we can do anything we set our minds to.

I want to be your homeschooling buddy! I’m so far from a perfect homeschooler, but I can be your cheerleader and share from my own experience.

I hope that be sharing these ten homeschooling tips that you will be so much more ahead of the game than I was. 

Don’t forget to snag your free printable home school schedule to get you started! 

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Related posts about homeschool and kids’ learning: 

How to Create the Best Homeschool Classroom for Your Family

3 Things You Need to Do to Prevent Summer Learning Loss

-Are You Wondering How to Start Homeschooling?

Tell me your thoughts, questions, concerns, or your best homeschooling tips in the comments below! 

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28 thoughts on “9 Homeschooling Tips Every New Homeschooler Needs to Know”

  1. I can relate to many of these. We have been “distance learning” for 2 days now and a schedule is turning out to be our hardest part. If the kids are at home, they think it’s playtime. Getting them to sit down and do school work (they’re 4 and 6) has certainly been a challenge…

    Fantastic post 🙂

  2. This is great! I was homeschooled my whole life and loved that it only took a couple of hours a day compared to my friends who went to school all day. I’m also thinking of homeschooling my kids when they’re school age but it is scary trying to think what I’ll do for a curriculum. Thank you for sharing these tips it’s super helpful for me to hear!

  3. This is a very helpful blog for moms. My son is not even 2 years old yet but still I got great tips. Before that time even, I have prepared myself and learned many how-to’s… Thank you for sharing!

  4. oh my gosh, this whole homeschooling thing has been so overwhelming. I was reminded by my child’s kindergarten teacher to make sure we didn’t focus too much on the school work and we focused more on being outside, playing with each other and having fun. Let them be kids but still do what is needed.

    1. Moms homeschooling kids need all the help they can get right now. And this post has done a great job of it.
      We all got thrown in this without any warning or plan. It will surely pass.

  5. Excellent tips. As a veteran educator, I can agree that you have suggested some of the best homeschooling tips such as integrating subjects and beginning with the most challenging content first. I wish you all the best, but it seems you’re off to a great start

  6. This is so accurate! I’m an ex-teacher who decided to homeschool and at first I was so formal. Once, I embrace the fact that homeschool has a completely different groove, we were all much happier.

  7. Gosh this must be so hard and also stressful for the moms…to make sure the kids are getting good education and still do their own job and take care of home.

  8. This is so helpful! I have often wondered if we should homeschool our boys but it just seems so daunting. Now that we are in week 1 of distance learning, I am trying to be mindful that I am not a teacher and give them some slack while ensuring they are completing their assignments.

  9. O my goodness. I had to learn the hard way not to compare myself to other homeschool moms. We all have to figure out how to make it work for our family.

  10. Such a great list! Life is different for us all now and you are right, I think it is important that we all cut ourselves a bit of slack! We are all just doing our best 🙂

  11. Yes, yes, yes!!! These are all such wonderful tips! Number 1 (Homeschool Learning is Different Than Classroom Learning) was the one thing I wish I accepted sooner when starting our predominately homeschool based learning journey. Having a background in education, I was so used to classroom structure that I forgot I was the leader/to take advantage of the less rigid schedule and make it more fun! Thank you for sharing!

  12. These are great tips to keep in mind, thank you for sharing! I’m homeschooling my oldest this year (first time) so I was super excited to come across your blog! Pinned so I can finish up later and subscribed for more tips❤️

  13. Great tips! So far our schools are supposed to reopen for 5 days a week but if we need to shift to homeschool I know these will come in handy!

  14. Like many, I had to adjust to homeschooling life because of the pandemic.
    It has been difficult, and humbling, but your article has helped us so much!
    My son has high-functioning autism, and for him, the routine is key. You can really tell the difference once we implemented a flexible routine.
    As a mom, it has been super challenging, too, there’s so much to learn, especially when it comes to curriculum, and mixing subjects, or teaching about different concepts with a project!
    I’m so glad I found this article! It has helped us a lot! 😀

  15. My g-children’s spring break (2020) ended up lasting through the end of the school year. My DD worked her bum off trying to get all the work their teachers posted done. It was very disorganized and hard to deal with, not counting the zoom meetings, which usually were a waist of time. I’ve tried to convince her to pull them out and home-school them, but she is really scared. So I asked her to work with me to teach them through the summer. We decided to only teach on Mon., Wed., and Fri. from @9:30-10:00 until noon-12:30 … she is teaching spelling, reading, writing and phonic (vocabulary) from print outs and math with an online site. And I took over science, history (social studies), art, bible study and music. She commented to her husband the other day that she and the boys have learned more these last 3-4 weeks than the boys learned all of the last 9 weeks of last years schooling (through the online public school routine). LOL .. that’s quit a complement for the work she and I have put in. And the greatest part … Both Boys Can’t Wait for school time!!! ALL PARENTS CAN DO THIS, you just have to do it!

  16. Hi, i am starting homeschooling tomorrow, kinder and 1st grade.
    Its my first time, and i truely appreciate reading your tips for starting, i agree with what you wrote, i’ll be following you for more recommendations.
    God bless you.
    Melissa, from Costa Rica.

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